tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7549704022073544930.post5688022919603674823..comments2023-05-09T10:11:08.891-04:00Comments on New York Love: Burning questions answered, The ListSashahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07990761872255700493noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7549704022073544930.post-12017858880063898602013-12-07T10:55:17.165-05:002013-12-07T10:55:17.165-05:00Your "list" is about like mine: a kind h...Your "list" is about like mine: a kind heart, an open mind, a sexually compatible lover, and a great sense of humor. Helena Fortissimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02038388794311046455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7549704022073544930.post-78231749481084238372012-06-06T23:28:25.539-04:002012-06-06T23:28:25.539-04:00I agree with what you say that it's how the pe...I agree with what you say that it's how the person makes you feel that matters the most. Even if all my 3 requirements are met but I don't feel my best (which happened) I might try to stick around but eventually leave. As ultimately I want to be with someone who brings out the best in me and with whom I am the way I love me. That's a true secret and we know wether we have it with someone or not pretty much right away.<br />Thanks Gary. I hope your list is not as long as other men's I inquired;)Sashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07990761872255700493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7549704022073544930.post-24873376370398312122012-06-05T14:16:43.635-04:002012-06-05T14:16:43.635-04:00I can very much relate to your list.
Probably the...I can very much relate to your list.<br /><br />Probably the most difficult thing with on-line dating is dealing with the shopping list. Over time, people come up with the most ideal candidate qualifications, as if looking to hire someone for a job. It's a very tall order to fit... and even if you do, it may not work. Why not?<br /><br />Emotional chemistry. That "je ne sais quoi." Of course, you need to have physical attraction, but how the person makes you feel is what matters most. People are like works of art. There is the first impression, but then when you revisit them again and again, you start to see more. Maybe you find less of what you like, or you find more of what appeals to you. But you also have to know what you want out of a relationship. A lot of people don't really have a clue. They think it'll just come to them at the right time. Or, some people think of it as climbing up a ladder, always moving to the "next better thing". But that's just pure folly. Yes, when you're dating someone and feel like you could really love them, there are others out there in the world who you might be happier with (funnier sense of humor, more attractive looks, higher financial station in life), but we can't canvas the whole world. Sometimes you have to realize that the person you're with is someone who can really make you happy for the long haul, you're lucky the random chance of life brought you together. It's important to sense when it's time to stop looking over your shoulder.<br />;-)Gary on Hudsonnoreply@blogger.com