Monday, April 6, 2015

How to fall in love with yourself fast

Cheers lovers,

Let's say you're deeply aware that loving yourself is key to a happy life but still having difficulty sincerely loving yourself on a daily basis. All of it seems overwhelming, and sometimes you just don't know how to make a first step. Or you've been conditioned for so long to criticize yourself so when you make a mistake all that work spent on falling in love with yourself goes out the window.

Today, I am going to share with what I used to do myself in the early stages of developing self-love. I still use it once in awhile when I need a quick pick me up. But as you keep discovering true love inside you won't need it as much.

So here is my little secret on how to fall in love with yourself right now and fast:

Imagine you are your own daughter.
Again I am addressing women here, since I can safely use tested knowledge derived from my personal feminine experience. If men want to try my methods, I would only encourage, but I am no expert on their psyche and would not guarantee any result.

Again ladies, imagine you are your own daughter.You might be perplexed by this idea. What does it mean? It's quite simple actually if you just give it a try. Imagine you are your own beloved daughter (whether you have one or not). I personally don't have one, but as far back as my early 20s I was using this method to show myself love, especially when I felt down and needed something to pick me up quick.

Just think about it, if you are a woman and you have a daughter, she would probably be the most important person in your life. You'd love her unconditionally, give her only the best, want to see her happy and loved. There would be no limit how far you'd go show her your love.

So why not do that for yourself? Why not be your own daughter? The child inside you needs it, it's been waiting all along.

When I feel down or critical of myself, I just start imagining if I had a daughter and she were me, I would tell her that she is wonderful no matter what, that I love her no matter what, that I believe in her no matter what, that she is allowed to make mistakes, that she is a human but an amazing one, that everything will work out because it always does. That she has nothing to worry, cause I am by her side, and the Universe will support us at all times. That we have got each other and that's all we need. That we can get up and smile again, and see beauty in everything. That we are here to be happy and have joy. That we are just learning, and we are doing better and better every day. I could go on and on until my fingers can't type anymore. You get an idea.

I want to encourage every sister out there to treat herself with love and care, the way she would her one and only beloved baby girl.
Your inner child will blossom and give you strength, and life to be happy about. Just give her love.

Blessings to all on this wonderful Monday morning.

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